Dear Annie: My husband had a period of infidelity. He met a co-worker, and I was sick with mold poisoning. I wasn’t giving him the attention I normally did. He said he found in her what I wasn’t giving him. He told me about her but refused to stop seeing her, swearing they were only friends.
I tried to be friends with her only to find that every interaction I saw between them hurt me and made me more insecure and uncomfortable with their relationship. Then I found out that one drunken night, before I moved into my apartment, they slept in the same bed together. My husband had lied and said she had never stepped foot in our apartment.
More lies came out, and I asked him while we worked it out to please not see her. He saw her once a week and on his birthday. I had told him when he said he