Dear Annie: When I married my husband, I was completely inexperienced and unaware of his interest in kink. Six months into our marriage, a woman contacted me claiming to be one of his submissives. She said she couldn’t live with the guilt of me not knowing. I had just found out I was pregnant, and the stress led to a miscarriage.

We went to counseling, and for a while, things improved. He agreed to a closed marriage and seemed more attentive. A year later, I became pregnant again — this time successfully — but discovered he was back to his old behavior.

I tried to understand his world and explore the lifestyle myself, but we are completely incompatible. He even admitted he could only enjoy intimacy with me when I was in discomfort. We haven’t been intimate in years.

Recently, I met some

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