You shouldn’t simply plunge your arm into a lover’s hot, tight, wet hole without a little know- how. Preparation goes a long way to avoiding sore bottoms and fronts, disappointments, and broken hearts. I went deep with a leatherdyke and a leather daddy who have a whole lot (40 years) of experience between them.

A rectal tear is the paper cut of anal sex. Not devastating, but honestly far more painful than you’d think, so we turned to Jim Drew, who started fisting 25 years ago. He’s a vers-leather daddy, board member at Seattle Men in Leather, and founder of the Seattle-area fisting group Menagerie.

How do you prepare a partner (and yourself) for fisting?

For the bottom, they typically need to douche their rectum and the lower colon. Generally, you put water in and expel it until it come

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