They say love is about communication — just not at full blast.

A Reddit user has ignited an online discussion and debate after posting that their partner keeps asking them to “lower your volume” — even though they say they’re just excited, not screaming.

The anonymous user, who goes by u/Farts2Long (yes, really), brought their relationship beef to the infamous r/AmITheA–hole forum, explaining that their voice naturally gets louder when they’re engaged in conversation.

“Sometimes when I get excited about a topic, I naturally start speaking louder than usual,” they wrote.

They added, “Not shouting, just louder than normal conversation level. The thing is, I don’t realize I’m doing it in the moment.”

But their partner isn’t a fan of the verbal volume.

One Redditor’s excited chatter

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