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Dear Prudence,

My husband has not been loyal. In our 20s it was sex with other people, but in our 30s and 40s it’s been emotional affairs. I found out about the physical affairs when I had a kid and no job and was trapped. I also forgave the first emotional affair, but now we’re onto the second and I’m just done. Divorce is in the works.

However, this latest woman is unlike the rest, who were single, or slept with my husband along with their boyfriend or husband, too. This one is married, trapped with small kids, and is without a well-paying job. She a husband who wants polyamory. Sounds a bit familiar to me! I think that’s why I’m so mad—this woman’s experiences are the exact same as mine and she still had the ga

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