Dear Eric: I have been dating my girlfriend for one and a half years now, and we have a really strong relationship. I care about her a lot, and our relationship means a lot to me. However, recently our relationship has been missing the spark it used to have, and it just isn’t as exciting anymore (although I still very much enjoy spending time with my partner and our relationship is fine).

Additionally, I have started finding someone at work attractive and have found myself looking at them a lot and trying to be around them often. I have already told my partner that I find this person attractive, but I said it didn’t amount to much (sort of like thinking a movie star is attractive) and so my partner was not too upset.

However, I feel very guilty about my feelings of attraction and am wor

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