DEAR ANNIE: My husband, “Mark,” and I have been married for six years. For the most part, things are good between us, but there’s one recurring issue I can’t get past. Mark’s ex-wife, “Tina,” is still very involved in his life — not in a co-parenting way, since they don’t even have kids, but socially. She calls him every few weeks or so, invites him to group outings and has even dropped by his office “just to say hi.”

Mark says they’ve remained friends and that there’s nothing inappropriate going on. I want to believe him, but it makes me uncomfortable. I’ve told him how I feel, and he says he understands, but nothing has changed. He claims cutting her off would be “unnecessary drama” and that I’m overreacting.

I’m not trying to be controlling, but I honestly just can’t seem to let it go

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