Adapted from an online discussion.

Dear Carolyn: I have been dating a man for a few years who believes it is not masculine to show emotions. Lately he has been telling me I am too emotional and moody. I now find myself avoiding seeing him when I am feeling anything other than happy and calm because I do not want to be judged. Subscribe for unlimited access to The Post Save on unmatched reporting. Get your first year for $20

I am never dramatic about things, and I am generally a strong, resilient person. Sometimes things happen that make me sad or angry. I have even cried in front of him when something very sad happens.

How do I figure out if I am actually too emotional about things or if he is wrong and having a bad influence on my mental well-being? Advertisement

— Too Emotional

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