DEAR MISS MANNERS : I am expecting my second daughter in March. Our families are both looking forward to having a baby shower for two main reasons: This will be the first shower we’ve had, because we lived too far away last time, and also because I’ve had two miscarriages prior to this pregnancy.

Obviously both sides of the family are very excited, and our friends are as well. I am excited, but also a bit conflicted.

I’ve heard plenty of people complain that one shouldn’t have a baby shower for a second child because it can be greedy and selfish. I am trying to keep it as more of a “baby sprinkle” and focus on it being an excuse for friends and family to gather and have a fun time.

My main hesitancy is the baby registry. I made one as an idea list and wish list for myself, but now that

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