What should we say to someone who is grieving?

As Minnesotans rush to support the Annunciation Church and School community, it can be hard to know what to say. And frankly, what not to say.

Death is the hardest thing in life. Now, we are all facing it after the mass shooting that killed two children, Harper Moyski and Fletcher Merkel .

"We are a society that likes to fix things and make things better. And in grief, we can't do that," said Sarah Kroenke, a grief counselor at The Grief Club of Minnesota in Chanhassen.

The Grief Club is a place where clients like the Rydbergs come often. Kelly and Ella Rydberg have been watching from afar, the scene unfold at Annunciation.

"Its very heavy cause you can put yourselves back in those first days. And you know what it feels like to be in that moment," said Kelly.

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