DEAR ABBY: I am a man whose long-distance boyfriend of one year has a married female best friend. ( She’s his boss.) She is also a tobacco-addicted narcissist who drinks a lot. They chat on the phone and text for hours every day because, as he puts it, “she can’t be alone.” I think she uses him to compensate for her insecurities. I also think she’s a bad influence on him.

We see each other only every other week because of the physical distance between us, and then only for a day and a half. Last weekend while I was there, she texted him and asked if we would come spend the evening and drink with her. I told him absolutely not ! I am protective of our time together and have no desire to spend any time with her.

The closeness they share really bothers me. They have bee

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