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Dear How to Do It,

My husband has a fetish for tits. Within the last six months it’s reached the point where all he wants to do in bed is fuck my boobs, come, and then go to sleep. To me, this is like going to a restaurant and filling up on bread. All I want is for him to fuck me. I have been making do with sex toys, but it’s not the same as the real thing. Attempts to get him to move downstairs are met with promises that are never kept. What can I do to fix him?

—Did He Forget How?

Dear Did He Forget How?,

You do not have to consent to what your husband wants. It’s nice that you are allowing him to enjoy your body in a way that doesn’t do much for you, but it’s n

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