This wasn’t the way to disarm her.

A NYPD detective was arrested after he allegedly flashed his gun to threaten a stripper outside a Long Island jiggle joint, asking her, “Have you ever been shot?” The Post has learned.

Ryan Olsen was caught on camera lifting his shirt and showing a gun tucked in his waistband to a dancer outside the Carousel Lounge in Huntington Station on Sept. 19, police sources said.

Olsen, 37, who lives nearby, approached the 23-year-old stripper as she was “smoking a blunt” in her car outside the club around 3 a.m., sources familiar with the investigation said. 3

“Do you know when Bambi’s coming out?” he asked, referring to another dancer, according to sources.

He then asked her to text Bambi to find out.

But the unnamed woman refused to help, and she and

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