I’m getting married next spring, which means my fiancée Mary and I are currently planning a wedding. (Yay!) Lucky for me, Mary is like a millennial Ina Garten , so she’s got almost everything (handmade invites, a multitiered candle plan, table florals) handled already. But planning a wedding has revealed all kinds of opinions I never knew I had — including some fairly specific hopes and dreams for our guests. (For example: As an obsessive Google Calendar devotee, I would prefer to get RSVPs back six months early, if possible.) Ultimately, we just want everyone to have fun. But weddings mean logistics, and logistics mean people have questions — questions not every guest will want to, or should, ask the bride(s) directly. (We’re busy!!) So, with help from etiquette experts, recent brid
Wedding Etiquette, Explained: How Not To Embarrass Yourself

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