Gun-Shy gal Reese Witherspoon is pumping the breaks on engagement talk with billionaire beau Oliver Haarmann because she's still rattled by her failed marriages to actor Ryan Phillippe and talent agent Jim Toth, RadarOnline.com can reveal.

Sources said The Morning Show star, 49, is still very happy with the German financier, 58, who she began seeing last summer – but added she's determined to protect herself from heartache and be present for her three kids. Article continues below advertisement

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The Legally Blonde beauty is mom to Ryan Philippe 's children, Ava, 26, and Deacon, 21, and Jim Toth 's son, Tennessee, who

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