Finding out your spouse has cheated is devastating. But what stings even more is when the people who should support you the most take the other side.

That’s the reality this Redditor faced. After discovering her husband’s affair with a coworker, she chose to end the marriage. Yet when she turned to her father for support, he dismissed her pain and blamed her for not holding the marriage together.

Feeling completely betrayed, she went no contact and hasn’t spoken to him since. Now she wonders: was she justified in cutting him off? Read the full story below and decide for yourself.

After finding out her husband cheated, the woman told her father she was getting a divorce

But instead of supporting her, he turned the blame on her for ruining the marriage

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