Dear Annie: Earlier this year, I asked my best friend, “Macy,” to be my maid of honor. We’ve been close since college — over a decade — and I never imagined anyone else in that role.
At first, she seemed excited, but since then, she’s been dodging every responsibility. Macy skipped the dress appointment, ignored my texts about the bachelorette weekend and hasn’t offered help with anything. I ended up asking my cousin to handle the shower just so it would actually happen.
What’s worse is that when I finally asked her if something was wrong, she said she’s just “not into the whole wedding thing” and thinks I’m making too big a deal out of it. That stung.
This wedding isn’t extravagant — we’re doing it in a park and keeping the guest list small — but it’s still important to me. I never ask