This is a parenting debate that’s lighting up TikTok and stirring up family group chats everywhere.

Mom and TikTok creator Lily Chapman has gone viral for her take on grandparents babysitting.

“I think this is more like controversial or unique than I thought it was, but my take is basically, if you’re watching my kid, you can do it your way,” Chapman said on social media.

Lily has a 14-month-old daughter, and she has three sets of grandparents, each with their own style.

“As long as you’re not crossing an explicit boundary that I’ve set that has to do with safety, I will not be complaining,” Chapman stated.

Lily only has, what she calls, three “very strict” safety boundaries:

1.) Grandparents need to cut their daughter’s food into tiny, non-choking-hazard pieces.

2.) No surprise g

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