Dear Abby: After my father died by suicide, my mother moved the family across the country. I was 13, and I never discussed my father’s death with anyone.

Now, 50 years later, my best friend from high school has terminated our friendship because I don’t support her politics. Her parting comment to me: “I was only nice to you because your mom told me how your dad died.” Abby, I had plenty of friends in high school. I was senior class president, and I have gone on to have a successful life.

I was always there for my friend when she had marital and other difficulties. I am struggling with processing such profound cruelty from a lifelong friend, and I would welcome your guidance.

— Grappling in San Francisco

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