Carolyn Hax: Is she ‘terrible’ for not wanting to be close to mother

Dear Carolyn: I’m the distant daughter-in-law in the oft-described scenario of not having a warm relationship with my mother-in-law. I am cordial to her, I try to minimize our asks of her, and I try to prioritize the time my in-laws get with our young child. I also encourage my husband to spend time with his parents whenever he wants.