Our advice columnists have heard it all over the years—so we’re diving into the How to Do It archives to share classic letters with our readers. Have a question? Send it to Stoya and Rich here. It’s anonymous!
Dear How to Do It,
My girlfriend and I have noticed something more and more in mainstream porn. We’d like to try it, but we’ve always been told how unsafe it is.
We’ve noticed there’s more and more “ass to pussy.” How do the women who do it in porn do it? Do they gobble antibiotics? Do they have secrets for cleaning out really well? Do they just suffer with infections for the sake of a paycheck? Or is it not really as unsafe as we’re told?
—A2P
Dear A2P,
I don’t think the best question here is how adult performers with vaginas mitigate the risks of

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