I lent my cousin £500 for bills but saw her holiday pics. Should I mention it?

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Dilemma

I never imagined that lending £500 to my cousin would leave me feeling so conflicted.

It started innocently enough with a message from her saying she’d fallen behind on her rent .

She sounded desperate and I believed her. I transferred the money. I viewed it as a short-term rescue, a gesture of support.

Then a few days later her Instagr