DEAR HARRIETTE: I started making pottery as a new hobby, and I love it, but my roommate keeps making jokes about how messy it is.

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She calls it a “mud factory” and even moves my supplies around without asking, which makes it hard for me to focus or enjoy my work.

At first, I tried to laugh it off and tell myself it’s harmless teasing, but it’s starting to get under my skin. I look forward to pottery as a way to relax and express myself, and I feel like I shouldn’t have to feel embarrassed about something that brings me joy.

The tension has started to affect our overall living environment. Sometimes I catch myself avoiding my own hobby just to keep the peace, which makes me feel resentful and frustrated. I’ve tried dropping hints about needing space and respect, but my r

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