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Dear Anna,

I’m a 29-year-old guy and I’ve been with my girlfriend for about a year and a half. We’ve always had what I thought was a solid, committed relationship. We live separately but spend most nights together, talk about future plans, the whole thing. I trusted her completely. Last week, while she was showing me something on her phone, a notification popped up on her lock screen from her email. Nothing dramatic — just a generic “Your subscription has been renewed” message. But I recognized the sender: Tinder. I didn’t say anything in the moment, but later that night, I looked again (I know, I know), and it was definitely a Tinder Plus receipt.

She doesn’t have the app on her phone now. I checked because I was spiraling. But what the hell

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