DEAR HARRIETTE: My sister has a history of being in toxic romantic relationships.

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Her patterns and choices have gotten a lot better over time, but she still falls back into some of her old habits sometimes, like obsessing, overthinking, online stalking and more.

Last week, we had a video call to catch up and discuss her upcoming birthday, and she started showing me screenshots from her partner’s social media accounts. He was on a trip with friends, and my sister had become paranoid because his communication was minimal.

Whenever she gets like this, I find it hard to talk to her. I don’t want to investigate; I don’t even really care. I try to get her to see that if she is this anxious or uncomfortable, perhaps this person is not right for her, or maybe she’s not ready f

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