This column originally published Oct. 17, 2019

Dear Carolyn: I just got engaged to one of four brothers who are very close. My fiance’s oldest brother has been married to “Jackie” for a year. I sense Jackie is used to getting a lot of attention for being “the daughter we always wanted” to my future parents-in-law, and may also have some vision of herself as the up-and-coming family matriarch (gag). Subscribe for unlimited access to The Post Save on unmatched reporting. Get your first year for 99¢

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I don’t care about any of this; I am just doing my own thing and hoping to get along with everyone. I happen to be a nurse practitioner and the first medical professional to join the family. I do not brag about this or really talk about it, but the family likes to bring it u

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