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Love languages are a popular idea, as is the notion that partners must match their preferred mode.

Previous research fails to support this idea, though, and a new study provides no exception.

Rather than trying to speak the same language, being a responsive agreeable person is what really counts.

One of the most popular concepts in relationship counseling, the idea of speaking the same “love language” as your romantic partner, is widely and unquestioningly accepted. Simply put, a love language is a way of communicating, verbally and non-verbally, with your partner. Like spoken languages, love languages come in a variety of forms. If you and your partner are going to get along, your preferred language needs to match.

Where Does the Idea of Love Languages Come From?

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