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Dear How to Do It,

I am a 47-year-old man married to a 42-year-old woman. My wife and I have a decent sex life. But as in most marriages with children, my sex drive is quite higher than hers. I’d probably be good for two to three times a week where whereas she is good for about two to three times a month.

One of the things I like to do most is to go down on my wife.

She doesn’t necessarily want it every time, and so it happens about once a month, but when it does, I inevitably get sick in the ensuing days. Even during the act (usually I spend anywhere from 10 to 20 minutes down there), I often have a reaction where I build up sinus pressure and can get a runny nose. It’s difficult to diagnose sinus infections, and the symptoms usually pass after two to three days, but this last one

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