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Dear How to Do It,

My daughter and her husband just returned home after spending the Thanksgiving holiday with her dad and me.

The problem is that when I was changing the sheets in the guest room, a cock ring fell on the floor. Should I simply get rid of it and pretend I never saw it? Call my daughter and tell her what I found? I know if my mother had ever come across anything like that and said anything to me about it, I would have died of embarrassment. How should I approach this?

—Red-Faced Mom

Dear Red-Faced Mom,

Let’s navigate this via your motherly empathy and intuition. If you suspect your daughter would be mortified were you to share your inter-sheets dis

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