Dear Annie: When my boyfriend decided to get serious about his health earlier this year -- cleaner eating, regular workouts -- I was super proud of him. I cheered him on and swapped out our snacks without complaint. For the first few months, it brought out the best in him.

But somewhere along the way, his personal reboot turned into an ongoing critique of me. If I bring home a loaf of bakery bread, he reminds me how “simple carbs kill energy.” If I skip a workout because I’m tired, he sighs with disapproval. Last week he told me my evening glass of wine was “a bad coping mechanism for stress.” Annie, sometimes I just want a glass of wine!

I’ve tried telling him that I’m happy he’s feeling good, but I don’t want my entire lifestyle audited. He insists he’s only trying to motivate me to be

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