Dear Carol: I supported and cared for my parents for years before they both died days apart last year. Now, my husband has been diagnosed with advanced prostate cancer and doesn’t have long to live. Our cherished plans for traveling once the elders passed have been replaced with a future of medical appointments, procedures and treatments. I’m depressed over the suffering he will experience and the idea of losing him. What’s truly awful is that I’m also resentful about more caregiving. I love my husband and can’t believe I’m having these thoughts. Without question, I’ll care for him, but to do that well, I clearly need emotional and psychological help. What kind of counseling should I look for? - LD

Dear LD: I’m so sorry about your recent losses as well as your husband’s devastating di

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