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Dear How to Do It,

For the longest time, my wife was staunchly against us visiting a sex club. Finally, for our fifth wedding anniversary, she agreed after a yearslong campaign on my part.

While we were there, I was with two different women, but my wife ended up being with eight guys over the course of the evening! Now she has us going back twice a week, and each time, the guys can’t get enough of her.

I thought this would be a dream come true for me, but seeing her get fucked by guy after guy has stirred some unexpected jealousy in me. I realize now that this was a mistake and want to go back to the way things were, as I’m now seriously afraid that she migh

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