If penetrative sex isn’t giving you the kind of toe-curling orgasms you crave, trust, it’s not just you. “More than 80 percent of women can’t orgasm from penetration alone,” says sex expert and coach Niki Davis-Fainbloom . Luckily, there are plenty of other positions to help you orgasm, and one thing they all have in common is— drumroll please —increased stimulation.

Positions that prioritize the clitoris , where you can grind against your partner or hit angles that touch deep internal spots of the vagina , can be very effective. “Get creative by involving all parts of the vulva ,” says sex-positive therapist Nikki Coleman, PhD . “Think about stimulating the entrance to the vagina, the top of the vaginal mound, and the lips.”

If that’s not doing it for you, take your time

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