Dear Anna,

I’m a 28-year-old woman who’s been seeing this amazing guy (31) for eight months now. We spend most weekends together, text daily and I’ve met some of his friends, but we’ve never actually had “the talk” about what we are. I’m pretty sure he’s not seeing anyone else because we’re together so much, and I’m pretty sure he knows I’m not either, but neither of us has said the words “boyfriend/girlfriend” or “exclusive.” My friends think eight months is way too long to go without defining things, and honestly, I’m starting to feel weird introducing him as “the guy I’m dating” when it feels like so much more than that. I want to bring it up, but every time I think about it, I worry I’ll come across as clingy or like I’m trying to pressure him into something he’s not ready for. He see

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