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After quitting a really toxic job last year, I’ve been searching for another role for eight months. Thankfully I have the most patient partner who has been supporting me, but it has been so frustrating and there has been a lot of rejection.

For context: I’m 33, and we want to start a family in the next couple of years, so we thought we’d just start trying alongside the job hunt.

I now find myself as a finalist for a job that I think I’d love and could go far in. I get so excited thinking about the work, the team and the nice salary bump. If they offered

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