NEW YORK – When we make mistakes at work, it can lead to a cycle of negative thinking.
The damaging thoughts swirl: “I’m an impostor .” “I’m not smart enough.” “I’m failing at my job.”
Feeling like an impostor — doubting one’s own abilities despite a track record of success — is common, especially among women and members of marginalized groups. Even on days when everything’s going right, it can be hard to shift out of a cycle of self-doubt.
But there are ways to interrupt that downward spiral.
Many people have found cognitive behavioral therapy , a form of talk therapy, helpful to examine internal monologues such as “I’m going to say the wrong thing” or “I’m not good enough” — and replace them with neutral or positive mantras.
“What we do in cognitive behavior therapy is help