On Wednesday, GQ published an etiquette guide for men titled “GQ’s 125 Rules for Modern Gentlemen.” Among its rules were things like saying “please” and “thank you,” standing up straight, and taking out your AirPods when speaking to someone. All great (if basic) advice. While teaching cis men manners is never a bad idea, the manifesto had me asking some questions, like, Is olive oil really THAT good of a gift? and Do men think about flowers this often?

But the most concerning tip, to me, is No. 12: “Greet people you know with a single kiss on the left cheek.” GQ adds in a couple caveats, like avoiding kissing someone in a business setting or if you’re meeting them for the first time (did that really have to be said?). In those cases, the magazine recommends a handshake but also s

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