Dear Abby: What if I don’t want to talk about what I do for a living?

DEAR ABBY: During social events and initial greetings, I am often asked, “What was/is your occupation?” Abby, I am retired and have no desire to discuss my past occupation with them. Once people know it, they automatically place you in a category, which might include your financial worth, what kind of car you drive, what kind of house you live in, etc. Often, this happens so they can “one-up” you. I really don’t think these things are anyone’s business unless I choose to discuss it with them. I prefer to look toward the future and not dwell on the past. Although I am grateful for my past employment, it does not define who I am today. Can you please suggest a polite way to answer the question “What was/is your occupation?” -- NOT DEFINED BY MY OCCUPATION

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