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If Nicole Kidman's reported split from longtime husband Keith Urban teaches us anything, it's that it's time to stop forcing our romantic relationships into the failure/success paradigm. The queer corners of the Internet know that already. But the rest of the world seems ready to follow the old playbook, offering tsk-tsks and lamenting yet another "failed" Hollywood marriage.

Content creator Blakely Thornton immediately had thoughts. "Be so fucking for real. In what world is a 19-year marriage a failure?" He asked his Instagram followers. "Like, to everything, turn, turn, turn. There is a reason and a season and not everything is forever. They got two beautiful kids and tons of memories. Let them live."

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