DEAR ABBY: I have been married to my husband for six years, together for eight. My husband has a kind, tender heart and knows how to bring me down to earth when I’m stressed. I love him very much, but I am becoming less attracted to him because of his lack of ambition. I’m a “chase your dreams,” “work super hard and get what you want” kind of gal, so it’s hard for me to sympathize with his lazy, careless lack of ambition.

If my husband has free time, he’s either napping, playing video games or watching a movie. Never does he choose to do anything productive like learn something new, work out or start a side hustle. (And God knows we could use all the income we can get.) How can I share how I feel about this with him without causing a blowout fight or hurting his feelings? -- DISAPPOINTED

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