DEAR ABBY: My husband and I married three years ago. We both had lost our spouses to cancer. He had a house and I had a house, so, since mine was paid for, I talked him into moving into mine and renting his so his renters could pay his mortgage. (That way, he could save more for retirement.)

My dilemma is, it seems like I pay for everything. He gives me $400 a month for his half of the utilities, phone and groceries. But with things so expensive, I end up paying the difference, and it’s draining my savings and checking account. I love him and he adores me, but this is starting to wear on me.

I can talk to him about anything, but money seems to be a sore spot with him, and I wouldn’t want to ruin everything else that is great. How can I approach this with him, without it affecting our rel

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