DEAR MISS MANNERS: I have been given a gift of immeasurable proportions: the gift of having my life saved by many nurses and doctors after my cancer diagnosis.

I want to show my gratitude to these wonderful people who have selflessly dedicated their lives to helping others, asking for nothing in return. I would like to at least give them each a card and small gift, yet each time I set out to write a note of thanks, no words can express the level of gratitude that I feel.

What do you suggest that I say or do? Also, would it be appropriate to donate to a cancer charity in their names and let them know about it?

GENTLE READER: No. They are making enough donations to the medical field on their own.

A heartfelt letter expressing your thanks is best. Miss Manners suggests you focus on the

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