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Rachael Kirkconnell has decided to open up about her sex life.
Or the lack thereof, to be accurate.
“I feel like a virgin again,” Kirkconnell said on the October 16 episode of the Extra Dirty podcast. “I haven’t had sex way longer than you think. It’s been years.”
This seems notable because Kirkconnell and former Bachelor lead Matt James dated from 2021 through 2025. They broke up in January .
Do the simple math and it certainly seems as if the reality star is saying she and her ex weren’t physical for a VERY long time prior to their split.
“It’s been years. Years. It has been so long,” Kirkconnell emphasized on this same podcast.
Because of how long it’s been, she wants to wait for the right person.
“That’s why I’m saying like I feel like a virgin aga