DEAR ERIC: I am fortunate to be part of a large family. As expected, however, we have a variety of political opinions. One of my brothers-in-law seems to feel it is appropriate to display his political views at family events. I do not want any displays of politics at this event. Should I include on invitations a note stating that political attire of any kind is not welcome?

– No Politics Party

DEAR PARTY: It’s a fine idea to include dress code instructions on party invitations, including a moratorium on political statements, but in this case, it runs the risk of being read for what it is: a pointed edict for an audience of one.

Better to reach out to him directly and ask him not to wear something that invites political discussion to your party. Now, of course, he can decline. Depending

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