Husband Tells Wife Getting Pregnant Is 'Not a Race,' He's 'Drained' from Trying

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A man asked if he's wrong for telling his wife that it's not a race to get pregnant

The original poster (OP) shared that he and his wife experienced a miscarriage four weeks into their first pregnancy

OP shared that his wife told him that "other husbands put in a lot more effort"

A man is asking if he's wrong for telling his wife that getting pregnant is not a "race."

In a post on the AITAH subreddit , the original poster (OP) explained that he, 26, and his wife, also 26, have been married for two years and are trying to have a baby. A few months ago, OP shared that his wife experienced a miscarriage around four weeks, adding that it was "extremely devastating for both of us."

"Since then, she hasn’t been the same anymore. I genuinely understand the pain and how much t