CLEVELAND, Ohio - In my friend group, two of us are getting married next year. Some of us have been friends since childhood, while others are siblings or newer additions to the group.

I am good friends with Tom. His older brother Bob is part of our group. While I don’t mind hanging out with him, I’m not as close to him as I am his brother Tom.

Bob asked me to be one of his groomsmen. I agreed, but now he expects me to be in my wedding. Some of the others from the friend group have told me about his expectations. I am planning on asking his Tom but had no intention of asking Bob.

I don’t want to cause bad feelings, but I didn’t intend for him to be in my wedding party. Am I obligated to ask him since he asked me?

ANSWER: Choosing your wedding party is a very important decision. These p

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