Cuffing Season When You’re Already Cuffed

Key points

Honest check-ins melt distance faster than guessing what your partner is thinking.

Putting connection on the calendar turns anticipation into the best kind of foreplay.

Staying curious and playful helps couples spark joy, intimacy, and a little seasonal heat.

For those of us who are already in relationships, cuffing season can bring out a little smug satisfaction. We already have a built-in cuddle buddy. No swiping, no small talk, no awkward first dates. We’re cuffed by default. But before you get too cozy under that weighted blanket, let’s be honest: Just because you’re cuffed doesn’t mean you’re connected.

If your summer lacked sizzle, your fall might feel more frosty than festive. And when those cold toes brush against your leg in bed, you might find yourself longing for