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Carolyn Hax can’t get to every question she receives, so every week we ask readers to think like an advice columnist and submit their advice. Out of the many great responses we receive, we select a few standouts to publish on Wednesdays. Subscribe for unlimited access to The Post Save on unmatched reporting. Get your first year for 99¢

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