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A bride-to-be's family is gossiping behind her back about what they are calling "inappropriate" wedding decisions

The bride's cousin wrote to an etiquette column to ask whether or not their relatives' complaints are "valid"

The columnist replied that the couple's wedding choices are "no one’s concern but theirs," and suggested solutions to help their relatives adjust to a few of the nontraditional changes

A bride's wedding is being criticized behind her back before it's even happened.

In an anonymous submission to the etiquette advice column "Miss Manners" published on AL.com , the bride's cousin, 44, revealed that their relatives, especially some of the older women, are gossiping about everything the bride, 30, is doing "wrong" in the months leading up to her wedding.

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