Dating app bios are full of buzzwords. When someone says they “value loyalty” or are “looking for love,” it helps paint a picture of who they are as a person. It might even encourage you to swipe right , especially if you value the same things.
If you start dating, these big, important words will follow you into your relationship. A new partner might drop the L bomb and say they “love” you or talk about how they want to “commit,” and it can truly feel magical. It doesn’t, however, necessarily mean you’re compatible.
According to TikTok creator and certified breakup coach @lauraleabalanced , that’s because it’s not enough to say these words out loud: You actually need to define them . The way you define relational words like love, loyalty, marriage, commitment, trust, etc., could be

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